True friends...

Was chatting v a fren on FB,

n found out that we have never meet b4,

but we know each other on msn since many years back,

and have the same interest b4...

but now our interest has change..

not as same as b4,

but stil..

we are able to chat juz lik friends..^.^

it is lik a miracle,

as wat i've said to myself n others,

if there is faith for you to meet each other and become friends,

and after a long period of time,

u still have that sense of closeness,

that person is yours truly...

but in another way,

if there is no faith existed,

that person wil also juz fade away from your memories

or juz b4 your eyes...

n there was also one incident which

that person was once a close fren to you,

but after sum period of time, u din get to contact,

that friendship juz fade away..

u might choose to appreciate it,

but that person might choose not to,

so that's it,

the faith has faded, ended...

i really belief god has actually create faith among all of us,

how to differentiate:

CASE 1: NO FAITH 

u will come by some person which u may meet many times,

but,u dun get to know who that person is,

u recognize their faces, but u juz dun hv da chance to talk to them or 

make friend..

this also apply to HI-BYE friends..*in my case =)

and also those who just forget about you/left you alone to settle if smtg really happen...

this kind of people, juz let them go...they are not worth it.. as the faith 

between you and them has ENDED.. there is not nid to force it bek..

CASE 2: FAITH

u din really get to see them b4,

for the 1st time u juz met, talk, and boom, you become great frens~~

there are topics between you guys but not secrets..

CASE 3: STRONG FAITH

u get to know the people slowly, at start they might not be a close fren,

but then smtg happen n you become closer...

later on, you argue... but stil at the end... you are close to each other...

no matter what happen, they will always be there to listen n help you out..

you are able to look into the person souls, and happen to understand what

that person is thinking n how they feel,

you are able to juz forgive n forget this person, u dun feel lik losing them..

and they feel the same way too...

appreciate this type of faith if you happen to come by..

True friends are always ready to help,

True friends are always ready to listen,

True friends will only complain in front of you when smtg you done was wrong,

even though both are having bad time,

you will only feel like talking/scolding each other face to face, 

and not talk behind each others back or to others who are not involve,

True friends are sincere,

True friends are always understandable,

even you don't talk much, but they just get what u mean about something,

True friends will try to forgive even though there is no apologize is said,

because apologize takes a lot of courage and you will understand that

what they do is not on purpose,

even though it is done on purpose, u are able to understand that

they will feel bad about it or maybe there are having a bad day...

True friends never lie, except for surprises/ jokes..

True friends are dependable and trustful,

True friends will never try to hurt you,

or humiliate you in front of others...

they will only humiliate you when they know you dun mind... 

True friends are ready to share...

True friends care about each other and concern about what

you do and what you say...

True friends are just like one of your family...

BUT...

True friends are just hard to find~~

there is a question people would lik to ask me,
Y am i always posting this kind of topic?
is because..i just wan to voice out smtg which bothers me..=)